It can be either natural (a coniferous plant that can be an abeto or a pine) or artificial, in which case it is usually made of plastic or made of synthetic materials that emulate an authentic natural tree. Its green color and tip shape are symbols of the life and love of God, and the lights that adorn it remind us of the mystery of Christmas Eve when Jesus Christ comes into the world bringing the light of a new hope. The tradition of putting Christmas gifts at the foot of the tree for children, whether brought by the Magi, St. Nicholas or Santa Claus, is later, and yet has a deep Christian sense, remembering that the tree comes from all the goods.
This tree was used to celebrate the birth of the sun god and fertility, known as Frey, on dates close to those of our current Christmas. During the evangelization of Germany, in the eighth century, it is said that Saint Boniface, to put an end to the worship of gods who were pagans from the point of view of Christianity, cut the tree and put in place an evergreen pine, which it symbolized the love of God, and adorned it with apples, representing original sin, and candles, symbol of the light of Christ. Over time, the apples and candles would turn into balls and lights, just like our current Christmas tree.
CHRISTMAS, A TIME TO PERCEIVE THE VALUE OF GIVING
Giving and receiving gifts is one of the most characteristic celebrations of Christmas. In essence, this exchange is a simple activity, but it really has a deep meaning both at a psychological and social level, since it acts as a mechanism of cohesion that favors the interaction between people. It helps to establish bonds, to define relationships and strengthen ties with family and friends. Through them, affection, affection, and interest are expressed. This value has been recognized throughout the history of humanity and, for thousands of years, all cultures have performed ceremonies that promote giving and receiving. There is an old controversy about who earns more, the left or the one who receives. Some studies claim that it is often the one who gives, rather than the one who receives, who gets the greatest benefits. Who gives, more than the one who receives, who gets the greatest benefits. In this sense, giving others reinforces our feelings for them and generates the sensation of being more emotionally competent. When we give thought that it would please the person to whom we are going to give, this welfare increases. The intention to make others happy is an act of empathy that allows us to get out of egocentricity. This is associated with high levels of gratification. But it is a two-way process. It is also proven that receiving gifts provokes a great impact that generates lasting and significant feelings, an impact that generates lasting and significant feelings, such as being accepted, taken into account or making us feel important and recognized.
It has a positive effect on the way we perceive ourselves and also on the mood. A survey on the meaning of receiving revealed how people feel that being on someone’s gift list shows the importance that the person has. In his life, the truth is that both giving and receiving represent many psychological benefits, which include the well-being that is felt when giving to others and also the gratification when receiving them. Both are experiences that have a high recall and also leads to other proactive actions. When we feel gratitude for the gestures of the kindness of a person to us, it is more likely that we also act in the same way. To make this expression of affection more rewarding it is worth taking these points into account.1. Broadening the concept of giving A broader perception of the act of giving away implies understanding that there are many ways of showing affection, which go beyond material things: a kind word, a hug, a special greeting or a pleasant moment. A good gift It is also taking time to share, have a nice and entertaining conversation, prepare a good meal or write a letter genuine consents. These simple acts can be loaded with important meanings. In this sense, all people are able to give to others and to be open to receive.2. Give without expecting any reward or gratitude By definition, a gift is something that is given without expecting anything in return. The person who gives a gift is usually demonstrating their affection or consideration towards someone else. But it is also true that you usually expect something in return, especially at Christmas. Although not openly, you may expect a reaction according to your purpose. There is nothing wrong with that when one gives something to another person, reciprocity is expected, although it is necessary to prevent it from becoming a mechanism of pressure. It is not necessary to respond in the same way.3. Learning to give and receive Sometimes we are disappointed with what we receive because it is not in accordance with our expectations. Knowing how to receive is the act of manifesting full acceptance of what they are offering. It is possible to learn to tolerate the frustration of not receiving all the expected, focusing more on what is received and not on what is missing. To assess the meaning of small details is a way of doing it. Equally, it is not about giving without measure,
CHRISTMAS IS TIME TO LOVE
December is one of the most anticipated celebrations of the year. It is a time for family coexistence and to strengthen the bonds of friendship. Being close, heart or physically, to the people we love. A time of the year to express our affection and give space to good feelings. Thank for the good actions received, the affection, the health, the company and the work. A moment for reconciliation, giving with generosity and doing good. A time for forgiveness and healing wounds that generate resentment, fear and disappointment. Christmas is a symbolic act for this reason making the manger, putting the lights, arming the tree, praying the novenas, singing Christmas carols or the family dinner of the 24th, have a special meaning. Celebrate the birth of Jesus, It is a moment to honor the life and all its expressions, through all these rituals of love and faith. But it is also a space for reflection, look inside them and rediscover the meaning that these parties have for each one. A time to have hoped and hope and make the decision to live in harmony. For joy, smiles and joy, but also for nostalgia and evocation of good times shared, because these are also part of life. I leave you with this nice invitation and I wish all the dear readers a Merry Christmas! -If you have sadness, rejoice, because Christmas is joy. -If you have enemies, reconcile, because Christmas is peace. -If you have friends, look for them, because Christmas is an encounter. -If you have pride, bury it, because Christmas is humility. -If you have people with deficiencies by your side, help them, because Christmas is a gift. -If you have commitment, fulfill them, because Christmas is justice.